Growing up

The older i get, the less i know. I really have no clue how adults look so put together. It has to be a facade to some extent. They can't possibly be as assured as they look...sometimes i feel like nobody has the answer but nobody wants to admit it. why is it so important that we look like we have the answers when clearly we don't? i think it's okay to not have the answers...it's going to have to be because i definitely don't have them.